Hi Lee,
Welcome to the world of 911.
Servicing your own car is not too bad, I have owned my 993 for just over a year now and have carried out my own servicing.
An oil change involves the removal of the two engine covers underneath, these are held in place by dzeus type fasteners. The car has two oil filters, one under the RH rear leading wheel liner, which is also where the oil tank and tank drain plug are situated. This filter is easy to remove, the tank holds about 10-11 litres of oil so make sure you have a large container to collect the waste oil. The car should be warmed up to full temperature before draining to ensure the stat to the oil cooler is open. The second filter is accessed under the car on the RH side of the engine, mine and quite a few others have found this filter harder to remove. I used a chain wrench to remove it, crushing it in the process. There is also a drain plug in the sump to drain residual oil from this. (The car is dry sump). Get yourself about 12 litres of oil for a full oil/filter change and check the oil level afterwards using dipstick and gauge in the dashboard agian carried out when the engine is hot.
Changing the Spark plugs is a pig of a job and involves using various angled attachments on your socket, the hardest to get to is the RH upper front plug. The car has 12 spark plugs two per cylinder, six in the engine bay and six underneath.
Changing the HT Leads and Dizzy Caps/Rotor Arms involves removing a lot of the gubbins from the top of the engine but is well worth doing if it has not been done on your car, transformed mine when I did it. Many cars out there are still on the originals which by now are well degraded. Whilst you are doing the HT's it is also worth doing the fuel filter as this can only be accessed with the air box out. Air filter is easy, mine had a K&N which I have removed as I am told they can mess up the MAF sensor.
I have upgraded the suspension on my car, this was easy to do but does involve full alignment afterwards as the suspension is fully adjustable for camber, caster etc and can only be set up using the correct equipment.
Buying your spares, join PCGB as you will get discount on spares from your local Porsche Centre (What area are you in ?) I have found Design 911 to be good as well and they also give PCGB discount. Always try and go for genuine Porsche spares as I have had issues with some of the OEM stuff out there and now only use genuine parts.
If you scan back through the threads on this forum you will find lots of questions answered and good advice. It seems to be one of the most active in the club. Also check out p-car.com, 911uk.com and Rennsport forum as these are also good for advice. And check out your region PCGB meet, I go to the Kent region meet each month and have picked up some good advice there.
Sorry for the long thread but hope it answers you question.
Cheers
Andy B.