Jon, I agree which is why i've said before that you are far better off spending money on chassis mods - mainly suspension and brakes, as that will unlock real performance improvements that you can exploit in real world. I installed my Promax L2 kit before the KW and though I noticed an immediate performance improvement with the Promax kit it was limited to straight line blasts down dual carriageway slip roads and overtaking on A-roads. In terms of B-road getting from A to be B use the performance improvements were largely redundant as I was still on saggy 20yr old suspension and didn't ahve the confidence or skill to push any harder than before the Level 2 install. As soon as the KW's were installed it was really like stepping into another world, cornering speeds were significantly increased by 20 - 30mph on some bends known well to me when weather and traffic conditions allowed, and I could brake later and harder and get on the power earlier.
The benefit of a new more modern turbo is not really the extra power and torque - it is the behaviour of the power delivery it brings. They will get on boost earlier, stay at max boost longer and performance will not drop off as aggressively when you get to the upper rev ranges. More power and torque will be available earlier in the rev range and you'll have it for longer. This will change the powerband from a more peaky stage 2 characteristic to a more mid-rangey and wider powerband.
I'm not saying they are worth the money, but that is what the extra dosh will buy you. Personally the state I had my car in before I sold her was more than enough for my and my driving abilities. If I was doing more trackdays then I would have probably justified more spend on her - i.e. a Vitesse stage 3 kit, but for the road I think I hit a sweet spot with he Promax L2 kit, KW and Big Blacks. More power than you'll ever need and the suspension and brakes to take it.