ORIGINAL: Peter Empson
Most of the weight has gone from the rear of my car too, although I can't say it's ever caused me any concern, but I guess my suspension was quite tired when I started out (it didn't look too high even with the lightweight hatch). Nowadays I like to have my suspension fairly regularly setup/corner weighted and the balance is very good.
Naturally I agree about the bonnet and hatch, but they're both fairly big and expensive things to do and will be more of a compromise than a lot of people will want at first (admittedly this is less of an issue with the bonnet). I'd also suggest doing the bumpers if you're having any paintwork done.
I use struts on the plastic rear hatch but not on the bonnet (don't think there's provision for it on mine, but I didn't like the thought of them exerting a constant upwards force anyway), I carry a piece of wood for that duty [
] (soon to be replaced by something a bit more hi-tech). I will be gutting the normal bonnet release and replacing them with lockable aerocatches soon, but I'm not actually sure if there's much saving to be had here as these latches are relatively heavy.